I have lived through abuse, addiction, imprisonment, and sixteen years of sustained online impersonation and harassment. These experiences did not break me, they shaped the work I do today.
I served with honour in the military, saving lives at sea and standing with families in their darkest hours. I have pulled the living back from the edge, recovered the dead from unforgiving waters, and carried grief no one should bear alone.
My scars began long before the internet. Born into abuse, bullied for a stutter, and failed by those meant to protect me, I faced the collapse of marriage, mounting debt, and imprisonment for unpaid fines. Addiction nearly claimed my life. What saved me was movement. Endurance became my discipline, my therapy, and my way back.
The deepest wound came when my identity was stolen and weaponised online, destroying my reputation in full view of employers, peers, and even my children. The internet is global, but justice is local, and truth does not always prevail.
Today, I speak to audiences about endurance, adversity, and resilience the human cost of trolling, online abuse, and digital defamation and how individuals and institutions can respond. My work goes beyond awareness. I integrate survivor‑led advocacy, trauma‑aware practice, and ethical storytelling into every keynote. I show how lived experience can inform research, shape policy, and strengthen public understanding.
My message is simple:
no one has the right to write your story without your consent.
I show how scars can become armour, and how endurance, resilience, and truth can be transformed into tools of resistance and renewal.